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Tears be the medicine!

Hey people! What is up? This Sunday let's talk about something we never really talk about. Grief! Sometimes we need to just grieve. In a busy world where we have time for a Snapchat and a swipe-up on Instagram, I don't think you've grieved. Some things happened that made you want to cry. But you held up. You wanted to pretend that you're strong. It's okay to feel broken once in a while. It's okay to not want to mend the broken thing. It's okay to just sit and cry. We'll make time for your loss. You lost a part of you that made you happy. Grieve. Give yourself a chance to say goodbye. Someone who's your person isn't your person anymore? Grieve. Things are getting hard and heavy? Take a moment. Breath. Yell. Not working? Cry dammit. The very first thing that you do when you come into this earth is cry. Then why the hell not let it be a constant emotion, a part of your life? It's okay to grieve. Yes, you must take some time to cry. Heartaches fo...

Rip that damn bandage.

Sometimes, It is okay to let something go in life to get along with your life. You can let go of your favorite dessert to be in better shape. You can let go of your favorite fragrance just because it reminds you of something that you no longer want to remember. You can let go of a dress that reminds you of a happy memory which isn't a happy one for you anymore. You can leave things off. You can call things off. You can cool things off. You can cut things off. Rip that damn bandage. Some Wounds heal better in the open air. Let go. You can start over and you can leave people behind if you truly believe that you are a sidekick in your own life because of them. Why do we keep forgetting that this is our life and we are the main characters, directors, and freaking writers of our lives!! You don't need to be extraordinary or perfect or amazing. Write yourself a story and thrive to be that person; that cool person who is in your head. Cool isn't maybe exactly what you want to be. ...