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Normalize every "NO"!

Heyy What up? Long time! Right? Wrong! I recently wrote a blog and you didn’t check it out! After you read this, go ahead and read that. Increase my views. Be kind enough bruh! So, coming to the point, I am considered as a person who says “YES” for everything except to hang out with my lovely friends. Haha! I want to change that side of every human. I want to help them say “NO”. We will change together. Don’t worry. For starters when your head screams “NO” and your mouth tends to say “YES”, shut that damn thing. Take a deep breath. Gather all the courage and say “NO”. Then walk the hell away. Even if your “no” has a valid justification, just walk away. You do not want to explain yourself. You don’t need to. Do you want to do Btech? NO. Haha, jokes apart. Random questions that you want to say no to. Here we go. Do you want to join us for drinks? No. Do you want to work in a corporate office? No. You wanna get married? No. Can you give me a second chance? No. Can you lend me some money? ...

Putting one's legs in an overthinker's shoes.

Sleep. In my perspective, when you sleep every cell in your body relaxes and gives your mind, soul, and body a little bit of peace. Sleep is something that repairs your body and gives you energy for another day. Sleep is a tricky term for an overthinker. You need to relax your brain and body to sleep. Imagine this. Your brain keeps working 24/7 thinking of things that might never happen. That constant thinking generates panic and anxiety. You cannot get your brain to stop and your eyes to close. You just stay there lying on the bed trying, draining, and exhausting all the energy you’ve got. Two things may work.  One, y ou cry yourself to bed.   Two, y ou exhaust yourself and there’s nothing left but to rest now. Now Imagine this daily. This is what happens to an overthinker. Maybe I did exaggerate here but this is usually the case in many of the overthinkers. And correct me when I say, this is a problem that is not addressed and is considered as a phase of adolescence. Ov...

Roses and Rainbows.

People often describe life as a struggle. They say to get a happy life you need to cross the thorns to reach the rose. I say, "dang it!" Y'all know what I see? I see beauty in every corner. I see kindness in every soul. I sense warmth in every hug over a cold facade. The earth is filled with beautiful people, adorable animals, amazing food, fantastic music, and crazy dance floors. You have a heart. You have a soul. You get to pray. You get to help. You get to make a promise and keep it. You can love. You can dance. You can go crazy! You get to decide to live a life you deserve. I think you deserve roses and rainbows. Life is full of light. You just decided you stay in the dark, my friend. Come, take my hand and we shall walk.. walk through the lanes of happiness. Life is full of life. It is indeed roses and rainbows down on earth! Isn't it? I do have different opinions each day. I might contradict my thoughts of yesterday because I evolve each day; every day! Today, I...

Super naive kids on the block!

We are all super naive kids Wandering here and there Chasing passing clouds Wishing miracles now and then. We are all super naive kids Dreaming life in black and white Expecting unicorns and rainbows Refusing to accept reality. We are all super naive kids Crying and breaking one day Running and flying the other day Hoping and believing every day! After-all; We are all just super naive kids.

Stress Awayy

Life is easy. We make it complicated. We stopped having fun and we make rules that we are not ready to follow and keep sulking all day about it. I've got everything. But I always try to push myself to hell. Crazy but it's how it's programmed. How I programmed myself. I take major life-stressing decisions and keep up with hourly breakdowns and monthly outbursts. I made my life so complicated that now any minor adjustment or any minor changes are making me want to scream and yell the hell out. I sucked the fun outta life. But. There's always a but. I want to chill out. It's hard but it's not that hard. I'm going to post this now, Fix me a fine glass of thumsup And hit the hay. If you have a similar story, Leave the mess and stop fixing everything. Give yourself a break. Go grab a chair.. Sit in a place where the breeze is on your face taking all the stress awayy from your mind and body. It's summer. The only thing you need to worry about is your electricit...

A three hour-film!

What if life was just a three-hour film that seems to last forever? Thousands of takes hundreds of locations and well, hell sound on! The signs that Taylor, Selena, and Justin keep singing about changing the life as if it's just a script that you could tear apart and write a new one. Maybe it's just a long three-hour movie where you laugh, cry, break, bring yourself back up and play your damn game. This concept of looking at life like a movie is quite interesting. isn't it? That is all I've got. I was happy while writing this. It was a draft that's left unposted. I wanted to post it and didn't want to add anything. So for now Byeeee! Stay Hydrated. It's summer out there people. Chill with water bottles.

I did dream of this present.

Hmm.. 21 seems old. I got a job. In-fact four. Not to brag but yay! There was a time when I cried for that offer letter. Now I just look at the letters I received and I laugh. I am not on cloud nine. I am not even happy. Like they say, “time flies and life goes on.” Well, hell yeah! It goes on whether you like it or not. It moves just like a jet leaving no room to even reminisce about the good times. I was watching Christmas movies and now I’m just staring at my laptop screen practically adjusting myself to a work-from-home environment. I mean the four years of my life, I did dream of this present. I was dreaming of a life where I could earn. I am just here and we are back to square one. I am back to where I was. Thinking of what makes me happy. I am writing this for the people out there thinking that a mere job will give their life meaning. Bro! It isn’t all rainbows and gummy bears. You want it. You get it. If you don’t know what you want, then wait. If you want a headache and dark c...