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Outdated Perceptions and Comfort Zones Somewhere being non-opinionated and neutral, I didn't realize the power of positive and healthy criticism. It's not always the hype. It's about feeling this thing of throwing someone falling off the cliff having complete faith that they'll grow wings and fly. Off the cliff is what I used figuratively. A healthy criticism improves a person. Isn't that what we need? I believe that we grow when we outgrow our outdated perceptions and comfort zones. Why does everything in my blog have to be motivating? I don’t know. Why am I posting every day? I don’t know. Why am I this annoying? I don’t know. Do I have everything figured out? (After a very long..) I don't know a thing. Seriously, I just write my blogs at 3 am and I post them in the evening because I sleep in the morning. I may end up contradicting my lines. I don't care that much. All I do is write down the things that my mind thinks and my heart approves. At 3 am when my...

Men Are Trying. #MAT  Not every man is the same. I believe this. Women these days are exploring themselves in every which way. Every day they have a new better definition for everything in their life. As we live in a complex society, it takes time for any human to adjust to the new normal, to the new style, and the new definitions. In a world where women are busy redefining themselves each day, men are trying to explore themselves too. They are trying so hard to understand the dynamics of a woman. They are willing to put their shoes in a woman's perspective and are trying to comprehend things. On one side we have men evolving and on the other, we have men with thick skulls not wanting to understand how things work in the 21st century. It isn't just about a specific gender, we still quite find some orthodox earthlings. All it takes is the right education to place things right in this puzzle called life. Not all of them have figured it out but every single male person out there i...

The Monster in You. #TMIY When a friend of mine asked me my opinion about this thing “ The Monster in You”; I told her I would get back to her by the end of the day. Well, that day was a long bad day and I just slipped that thought into a never-coming future. My mind has these very peculiar things running inside it and I was mentally not free enough to give attention to “The Monster in You”. The past couple of months, I kept complaining about the way things were going on in my life and that is all I was doing. I did nothing. I did nothing to resolve the issues that were making me constantly grumpy. I don’t know how to describe it and I don’t know that I will ever find ways to describe it. I didn’t know how to cope with the things that made me miserable. Days went by and I was suffering alone. Why? Because someone inside me wants to share nothing. I guess that’s the monster in me. That someone inside me is always pulling me back when I want to share my pain. Just like the virus mutates,...

Today, when I was scrolling through Instagram at 3:38 am in the morning, I read a quote " I hope that you heal from the things you don't tell anyone" and that hit me hard.  Like "stop scrolling and write about it" hard. So yeah, here we are. We all suffer in silence. We are not appreciated on a daily basis. We all have problems and we tend to ignore them by sleeping or by zoning out or by listening to music. All I am saying is that I know you are doing something right now that you don't want to. You are this close to leaving all the shit and running away. I get it. Maybe I don't. Well, you have your plate full and shoes filled with nails, so the only sane option for you right now seems to sleep. I don't know you, to judge you. Not that I would judge you if I know you. It is not my job to have opinions on the way you deal with your stuff. My job here is to make this world a better place for you that would help you make decisions that hurt you less. ...

Selfless Human day. Do you ever think of a situation, when you were in actual distress and pain, you wished someone would come flying and make all your problems go away? Well, I replay that situation a lot, believe me, a lot in my head. I know people do help. But not at the right time. Well, hell then what's the use of their help right? This isn't subjected to any individual.  It's a general opinion of a victim(#me and #everybody).  I ain't a saint. I have my share of not helping people when needed because I had my plate full.  A plate full of miseries that I plan for myself. To avoid the blame game and focus on the actual problem at hand, that is we, humans need to be a little more selfless and a little less selfish.  When I say little more, I meant for Pete's sake just stay for someone for once in your goddamn life for a day. It may seem like I'm screaming and we are pretty sure that I am. So my dear sweet people, Just like every Sunday in a week, please make ...